Raising your kids wasn't supposed to be like this.

How could your adult child reject you?

Maybe they've gone "No contact." No closure. No funeral. No sympathy. Just gone. And you're living in shame, isolation, and guilt. Did they give you an explanation?

Or maybe they're still in your life. Barely. "Low contact." Distant. Sometimes hostile. They may even be in touch with your family but stay away from you most of the time. They left the relationship without fully leaving the relationship.

Parental Rejection:

you are grieving your child who is still alive.

I know how much this hurts.

You replay conversations. You wonder you should have done differently. Some days you're crushed by guilt. Other days, you're angry because nothing you did was bad enough for this! Some days you go through the motions, barely even feeling. You wonder if you'll ever be happy again.

You're not crazy. You're not weak. Your pain is real. And you probably weren't the monster they want you to think. But now you can't correct it. And the lack of closure makes it feel even worse.

I understand. I've been there. And I want to help.

To help you strengthen your understanding, peace, power, and joy faster and make it last, a unique range of resources are combined blending science, the Bible, and multiple modalities, all centered on Jesus Christ to create the most effective and comprehensive healing and growth method available. It's an intensive program that begins with understanding and moves to repairing your bruised identity. If you continue, it then helps you learn to thrive while you wait and beyond, as well as prepares you to reconnect when your child cracks a door open, as well as helps you to try to reach out successfully when you are ready.

Parents need help to understand their child from someone who understands both perspectives. I'm the only Christian Estrangement Specialist who has lived this from both sides of the divide and successfully healed both relationships.

There's a path forward. I've walked it. Don't try to figure it out on your own. Save all the years and tears I paid to learn this, and let me walk it with you through this inspired system.

The journey of the child who rejected their parent

Like so many, when I was younger, I was misled about my relationship with my parent and I believed it. I carried that pain and resentment for 20 years. I saw everything as evidence for my new perspective. It was all I looked for.

But I was wrong. My parent was wonderful, loving. And perfectly imperfect. I refused to acknowledge the good. I had reviewed my past based on the bias of this new perspective from the advice of other people who were not in the relationship. And I believed that was the whole truth. I never considering the big picture and their perspective even once. I hurt us both. I missed out on so many years that might have been good together!

Karma

Years later, I got my just rewards when my own child cut me off. I didn't think I had done anything that was worthy of that. I was a good mother. But I lost them, their spouse, and all of my grandchildren in one day. But it didn't stop there. I made it more complicated by making multiple mistakes, stretching out over months until the final good bye. Eventually, things began to change. I walked through fire to learn and make the changes I needed to make. It took far longer than it needed to, and I risked losing my child for good.

Mercy

By God's grace and true miracles, both relationships are fully restored today. God worked in my heart, granted me a miracle, sustained my parent, and worked in my child's heart. It wasn't many months until they opened up that door. And by God's grace, I was healed and thriving even before the relationships were restored. I learned so very much and it all applied to healing our relationships. When the doors were opened, I was ready.

Hi. I'm Marit Welker, multi-certified coach, speaker, podcaster, and someone who has experienced this problem myself. I've lived both perspectives. I've studied under the best thought leaders, researchers, and invested years in learning my craft. My specialized training specifically for estrangement coaching, has helped me prepare. But God has given me much more. I've seen God's hand in every step of this coaching journey, felt guided and inspired to add things, to take things out, and to provide what you need to recover and learn to thrive no matter what.

I don't teach ideas. I teach what saved me.

I paid the price so you can take the shortcut. What I learned changed everything. I made the changes that made the sweet reunions possible. I learned what God wanted me to become. Now, that peace and understanding is what I want for you.

I was called to bring this message to others. I was called to teach and lift His children who are suffering in estrangement. I was called to strengthen families. I got the education I needed and have been able to lift others as they struggle to find their way.

I don't teach ideas. I teach what saved me.

I mapped the path for you, so you don't have to wander and make the mistakes I did.

Now, it's your turn!

Getting Started:

A short conversation starts things off. Your situation and needs will be reviewed as we chat to find the best way to help you- even if that includes a referral elsewhere. Then, I help you find understanding to see what's happened in a different light and to learn that there's a way through. This one-hour, first conversation on Zoom helps you come to see things more clearly and feel more hope.

If you choose to book a challenge with us, we'll help you repair your identity and transform how you see yourself through a proven system. This loosens the grip of pain and terror that accompany parental rejection. This is where you feel the transformation begin and feel your burden become noticeably lighter. And through this, you'll understand your role, responsibilities, and child much better. Then we'll show you a path forward to help you find God's path for you.

The only question left is whether you're ready to take the first step.

You don't have to figure this out alone. God is with you on this journey. And I'd love to walk this path with you, too.

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