Christian Speaker and Coach

When your adult child cuts you off, the silence isn’t just your phone—it’s in your soul.

You raised your children with all the love and prayers you had to give. You weren't perfect, but you thought you did your best. Maybe you hurt them. Maybe you didn't listen when they needed it. Or maybe someone told them "lose your parents. Find your life." They said they need boundaries but then they cut you off and called it "going no contact." Maybe they even just disappeared without a word. Others congratulated them.

Whatever the story, you are suffering. God knows what happened. They are in His hands. And He knows your hearts.

You don’t have to wander this journey alone or wait for time to heal the ache. Together, we’ll build a foundation rooted in God’s word, practical habits, and transformations that expand your mind and spirit—and prepare you to reconnect, so when that door cracks open, you'll be ready.

Unlike most who work with estranged Christian mothers, I've been where you are. And I've know their pain. I blamed my mother for my pain and problems for 25 years. It hurts. But I have been very blessed and we are all reconciled and I want to take you that direction.

I can promise you a happier, stronger, more peaceful future. If you’re ready to do the work, let’s take the first step together.

I’m Marit Welker, a woman who’s walked this path. Like you, I've been through a lot. Cancer, chronic illness, depression, brain injury, chronic pain, and my son walking out on me. I lost 5 people that day. Heartbreaking doesn't describe it.

But, through past experiences, I learned skills that helped me find astounding joy, peace, and purpose through faith, humility, mindset shifts, transformations, and powerful Godly habits practiced daily.

I learned what it took to reconnect with my son and his beautiful family. Having them back in my life is glorious! What was even most important is that I learned the skills that deepened my faith and showed me I could be happier no matter what. Like Paul, I learned to be content in any circumstance. (Philippians 4:11-13)

I don't teach ideas. I teach what saved me. I mapped the path for you, so you don't have to wander and keep making the same mistakes I did.

Now, it's your turn!

What life looks like on the other side:

You CAN spend time feeling lost and confused and, hopefully, find your way forward. OR you don't have to figure it out alone. The path has been travelled. I've mapped it out. And you can bypass years of struggling to learn these steps quickly and find your map, so you're prepared when they are ready to crack open the door to your relationship.

Not only that, but when you get past the confusion and fear and move into understanding, you develop the skills needed to reach out in the right way, hopefully opening that door. And in the meantime, you learn to be happier no matter what your circumstances are. You'll experience:

  • No longer being pushed around by worry, guilt, or fear.

  • Letting go of old pain.

  • Finding peace that doesn't depend on your kids' choices.

  • Connecting with God in a deeper, stronger way than ever before.

  • Discovering who you really are - and really liking her.

  • Finding your God-given purposes and living a meaningful life in the waiting.

This isn't about getting your identical life back. It's about stepping into the new life that's waiting for you, refined, renewed, and ready to reconnect.

Here's how we begin:

  • Step 1: Reach out through the form below and get started on the 5-day program, 'Still Here.' It's a personal one-on-one coaching program of five daily phone calls. Each day, we talk on Zoom or the phone. Conversation, introspection, and explanation will help you through the pain to move

  • Step 2: Consider what you learned in the Still Here program and decide how you will continue.

  • Step 3: In the course and coaching, you spend ~20 minutes each day, and I'll walk beside you, learning the skill that will shape you into a stronger, more understanding, more Godly woman, who is ready to reconnect. You'll also be in a small group of women going through it with you. Fellowship. Support. Service. Privacy -no more than four or four women. Close enough to really know each other, pray for each other, and encourage each other.

"I've tried therapy / programs."

I know. So did I. The difference is this: I don't give you ideas and send you home. I walk you through change that's built on God's word and your future, not your past problems. I work with your thoughts, your faith, and your heart, because it's the combination that brings lasting results.

I work with you day by day and week by week as you rebuild from the inside out. Small steps. big steps. Real change. Accountability. Connection in your own small coaching support circle. Habits that make it all stick.

"I should be able to figure this out on my own."

I hope so. I did it with the help of extensive study, prayer, hoping, wishing, and many mentors, one small, painful step at a time, over years. I spent painful years searching for what I was capable of, but I didn't know how to see it. You can learn in months what took me over 2 decades to learn. The path is laid out with a clear framework and small steps. Why walk it alone?

"I'm not sure I'm ready."

If you're reading this far, part of you is. The call costs nothing. We'll talk, and you'll know. No pressure. No strings. If it isn't what you need, I promise I won't push you. I truly want what's best for you.

"I just need to pray more and trust God."

This was my belief for many years. But it was a very painful road, and I wasted nearly 25 years of my life getting there! I wish I had found someone who could teach me these things in just a few months!

Prayer is a big part of the foundation in this process. Think of it as a starting point. You can learn this on your own if you want, but God has inspired scientific research and growth that Daniel spoke of for the last days. And with that, we have new tools, new understanding, and new means to learn and change much more quickly. Much more easily. This can help you become His hands and do the work He has for you in ways you haven't even thought of, but will bring you incredible joy! Don't waste the many years I did.

There are different ways to renew our minds. Ways to heal our hearts. This program uses both: deep faith, prayer, daily Bible study, AND the science of how people change. That's what makes it work. Science-backed skills aligned with Biblical truth. The combination is transforming, powerful, and lasting.

Your next chapter is waiting. Are you ready to save time and pain to get there?

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